Xavier

"missing my husband"

27. He/him. USA.

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Xavier's Interests

Washer Spiderland - Slint

General	Art, writing, reading, Buddhism, tech, Linux, webdev, FOSS, video games, philosophy, politics, religion, critical theory, history
Music	Slint, Radiohead, Billie Eillish, Fall Out Boy, Alex G, FINNEAS, twenty one pilots, The xx, MGMT, Cannons, Erykah Badu, Lady Gaga, Miley Cyrus, Nirvana, Foo Fighters, Stone Temple Pilots. Anything math rock, midwest emo, indie, alt-pop, etc etc.
Movies	Star Wars sequel trilogy, Avatar, Napoleon Dynamite, Talladega Nights: The Ballad of Ricky Bobby, Scott Pilgrim vs The World, BASEketball
Television	South Park, Adventure Time, Helluva Boss, Neon Genesis Evangelion, Naruto, FLCL, Shugo Chara, Trigun Stampede,
Books	Catcher in the Rye, Invisible Monsters, Catch-22, Reamde, Exquisite Corpse, Gone To See the River Man, Fire Punch, Chainsaw Man, The Invisibles, Young Avengers: Children's Crusade
Heroes	Lou Sullivan, Keith Haring, Jackson Pollock, Eric Fischl, Egon Schiele, Cindy Sherman, Chuck Palahniuk, Venerable Robina Courtin, Lama Yeshe, Lama Zopa Rinpoche, the Dalai Lama, Amitabha, Tara, Honen Shonin Next profile About

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Xavier's Latest Blog Entries [View Blog]

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About me:

Xavier. He/him. 27. USA.

I'm an artist, writer, blogger, webdev, vegan, Buddhist, and transsexual man.

I'm in a long distance relationship with my husband, who lives in England! We met in 2020 and got married in 2023.

I love art, reading, music, video games, and the indie web. <3 I grew up during the late 2000s/early 2010s, and love that era of tech and nostalgia. I play my 3DS all the time.

I'm super active in bulletins and try to post/comment daily. I also write blog posts semi-frequently. I'm not big on DMs. I don't use any social media besides Spacehey and Reddit.

I have a personal website at xavierhm.com. You should totally check it out!

I'm also building a website for binary trans men at transmen.online.

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Xavier's Top 8

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NuclearBlues

Vona

Tick

Usual Egg

Tell Me Secrets

Ronan ☥

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‎𝐒𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐫	1763993973 Hey hey! Thanks for accepting my request! I totally love your profile by the way! I read that you like to play games; what all do you play? I'm a gamer myself. I built my gaming PC and have a PS5 if you ever wanna play something sometime! Report Comment
Stev	1762736815 Hey thanks for the add- super cool profile. Great taste in music too- I love Slint! Would you mind sharing how you set up a top 8? Can't believe its not a native SpaceHey feature! Report Comment ty!! always excited to see another slint fan!! one day i want to build a page dedicated to spiderland on my website sure, i will clean up the code and make a blog post soon! :D by Xavier; 1763532120; Report
FeDeath	1761668211 Hey very cool profile! Report Comment thanks man! :D by Xavier; 1763532066; Report
xX_iZaBeLLe_iN$aNiTy	1760627727 really like your page and your blog posts dude hope you feel better soon! Report Comment tysm! i appreciate that <333 by Xavier; 1763532009; Report
linkie ❀	1759959151 hi there, nice to meet you! thanks for the add! your profile + your website are so much fun to dig through, like a treasure hunt! Report Comment ty i appreciate that! your site is super cute!! i'll add your button to my /links page, it'll show up next time i push updates on my site :D <33 by Xavier; 1763531492; Report Aaah thank you so much for saying that! ;o; and omg same, I haven't gotten around to updating my links in months so thank you for reminding me to also do that, lol! by linkie ❀; 1763738540; Report
NuclearBlues	1758408325 thanks for the add dude! your site rocks and your art is super evocative, super excited to see it Report Comment thanks!! i hope to post more soon by Xavier; 1758428349; Report
Usual Egg	1758406535 very cool website and I love that it matches your profile thanks for the add Report Comment ty! :) by Xavier; 1758428319; Report
Tick	1758237365 I am astounded by your profile, personal website, and online presence. It's so uniquely cultivated and put together. And you like FLCL, What We Do In The Shadows, Helluva Boss, AND Poppy Z. Brite? ദ്ദി ˉ͈̀꒳ˉ͈́ )✧ Fantastic art too. Thank you for the add! Report Comment tysm!! that means a lot :) and thanks for adding me back! that's super cool you're into poppy z brite, rare to find someone who also reads their work. have you read any other extreme horror? by Xavier; 1758242824; Report I've unfortunately been out of the reading headspace for quite some time and have really been hoping to get back in. :c I own Exquisite Corpse but still need to get to it. The book I have read is a collection of his short stories from way back in the day called Are You Loathsome Tonight? I also recently found the website Godless.com that's full of extreme horror content I can't wait to devote more time to sinking my teeth into. So far I've only read one short story and an incredible comic series called Sad Sack (extremely heavy gore and massive content warnings for nearly everything under the sun for that one). It's full of lesser known indie writers, so is a great spot to discover something new. If you have any suggestions I'm all ears! by Tick; 1758313404; Report
lem.iso	1758183362 your art is beautiful! thank you for the add. i've been thinking about exploring buddhism after reading a book about modern tibetan history- you got any tips/recommendations on how to practice it in everyday life? Report Comment hi! ty! :) I have a links page on my website, with a section on Buddhism: https://xavierhm.com/links#buddhism For any newcomers, I recommend this two-part video series by my favorite dharma teacher, Robina Courtin: https://youtu.be/_LIiLA7oEJA?si=Ah_OkwDgAqAvS3RJ I've been a Buddhist for 10 years now and jumped through a lot of different schools and practices. Sometimes I would stop practicing altogether, or have new doubts etc, but I always find my way back. I am currently practicing under the Pure Land branch, specifically a Japanese school called Jodo-Shu. I also dabble in Tibetan Buddhism practices. Buddhism is very esoteric and mystical on the surface, but once you get past that it's very psychological and pragmatic. Almost like cognitive behavioral therapy. If you wanna chat more, feel free to e-mail me: xavier@xavierhm.com by Xavier; 1758217174; Report
Allister	1735245363 Love the vibe off this profile btw Report Comment Hey! thanks man :) by Xavier; 1736994810; Report
Susan	1729827756 Stopping by to say hiiii!! Report Comment Thank you!! :) That's so nice! I think I'll pop around and tell some friends hi, too. Hope you're doing well! by Xavier; 1729919795; Report
Kuiperoid	1728416340 Thanks for the friend request! Report Comment No prob! thanks for accepting :) I followed you from Mastodon; I wish more people would migrate here, it's a lot of fun by Xavier; 1728446005; Report i like the stamps and the musical taste, also the tech side, all very cool! recommend midwest emo bands lol i only know of american football by drzks124; 1728617937; Report I just made a blog post! I'm gonna link it in a bulletin by Xavier; 1728618339; Report