Rox Paradox

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"intentionally regressing... "

elder millennial goth in florida (send help)

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thanks to 56,927 rotating special interest and hobbies - i'm pretty good at a lot of things, but not especially great at any one thing.

i'll try anything at least once and probably succeed, but then i'll likely decide that i've achieved an acceptable level of mastery and never do it again.

you'll often find me:

learning, creating, making, designing, decorating, crafting, diying, fixing, helping, organizing, reading, traveling, imagining, dreaming, or driving my tiny lil stick-shift sporty car.

i especially enjoy:

religious/spiritual stuff, anything creative/artistic, exploring/adventuring, facial/body piercing, makeup/skincare, and cooking/baking.

my current obsessions are:

cosmetic tattooing, medical/spa treatments, microblading, microneedling, hyaluronic injections, ipl laser, plasma pen, and other risky stuff i don't recommend trying at home.


tldr: very eclectic

goth, edm, industrial, metal, emo, scene, punk, ska, rockabilly, old/outlaw country, folk, indie, alternative, shoegaze, trip-hop, hip-hop, trap, dubstep, k-pop,

anything with the prefix "post-",

most things with the suffix "-core" or "-grind",

all waves, derivatives, combinations, and sub-genres of all of the above,

random stuff like German gangster rap, Romanian pop, Greek alternative, Punjabi and Bhangra,

anything composed for belly dance, especially tribal fusion jams,

and somehow, a lot more.

a few faves, in no particular order:

sigur ros, devin townsend, world inferno friendship society, switchblade symphony, gdragon, leftover crack, glassjaw, bright eyes, placebo, violent femmes, kmfdm, finntroll, imran khan, dresden dolls, between the buried and me, nahko bear and medicine for the people, lumsk, beats antique, bauhaus, brother ali, afi, ayreon, against me!, the used, fear before the march of flames, defiance ohio, explosions in the sky, aesop rock, sonata arctica, frontline assembly, mcr, intro5pect, yeasayer, the toasters, justin timberlake, smashing pumpkins, cold war kids, mephiskapheles, corpse, yo yo honey singh, mischief brew, bassnectar, jerry lee lewis, eko fresh, 2ne1, coheed and cambria, orgy, baba saad, godspeed! you black emperor, matisyahu, chairlift, anti-flag, big bang, the cure, lacuna coil, opeth, the raconteurs, hepcat, our lady peace, blind guardian, voodoo glow skulls, john prine, natacha atlas, missy elliot, jack off jill, deftones, tiger army, family force 5, the clash, massive attack, passion pit, pentaphobe, less than jake, sage francis, ...and you will know us by the trail of dead, depeche mode, exo-k, leaves eyes, fake problems, apache indian, god lives underwater, the cars, tommy james and the shondells, avenged sevenfold, murder by death, l7, trevor hall, nofx, kidneythieves, tori amos, desmond dekker, bushido, melanie martinez, punjabi mc, system of a down, brokencyde, ray wylie hubbard, portishead, iced earth, the skatallites, white zombie, xavier rudd, ashnikko, stabbing westward, the white stripes, eyedea and abilities, 3oh!3, psychic tv, cage, rilo kiley, kittie, cl, queen herby, breathe carolina, meat beat manifesto, bap, brooke candy, reel big fish, laibach, the black keys, jj grey, the smiths, atreyu, the birthday massacre.


if it's been described as "pretentious", "experimental" , or "cerebral", i probably like it.

if some people say they "don't get it", i like it even more.

if i can watch it 37 times and still notice new things, it's my favorite.

also, some cults and classics from my childhood.

as a small kid, i developed a fascination and reverence for black and white, silent films, silver screen, and early cinema classics. so, the east side kids/bowery boys (anything with leo gorcey, bobby jordan, sammy morrison, or huntz hall), laurel and hardy (i am 100% stan), clara bow, james cagney, marlon brando, humphrey bogart, mae west, marlene dietrich, the marx brothers (team harpo!), abbott and costello, pat o'brein, and charlie chaplin are all very close to my heart.

cloud atlas, waking life, the fountain, wristcutters a love story, i heart huckabees, empire records, angels with dirty faces, labyrinth, the goonies, bill and ted, stardust, the fifth element, spooks run wild, resident evil, neverending story, the last unicorn, and all the monster classics starring bela lugosi and boris karloff (my favorite, the raven, has both).


sci-fi, apocalypse, vampires, ghosts, zombies, anime, slice-of-life, dramas, quirky/eccentric characters.

what we do in the shadows, the originals, the walking dead, dexter, lost, desperate housewives, shameless, pretty little liars,

anime: fullmetal alchemist, lucky star, ouran high school host club, fruits basket, kanon, air, clannad, death note, chobits, sword art online, deadman wonderland, bleach, vampire knight, fairy tale, claymore, black butler, armitage iii.


religious texts, spiritual non-fiction, poetry, gothic, tragedies, classics, sci-fi, horror, fantasy, steampunk.

i'm a huge nerd for all things narnia and c.s. lewis.


"show me a hero and i'll write you a tragedy." - f. scott fitzgerald

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About me:

my name is roxanne. sometimes i do things, and also stuff. sometimes, i do not.




og myspace grrl, all growed up (woo, we're back bxtches)

i'm very lucky to be having an endless sleepover with my actual best friend of 25+ years -

mori bathory (clicky! and feel free to friend him, too. ^.^)

so, i'm here exclusively for friendship and would like to connect with people who have similar interests.

i've been fortunate enough to have many fantastic adventures in the career world - community leader, non-profit executive, business owner, to name a few - but these days i'm taking it easier than I have in the past - playing homemaker to a house full of amazing alt kids and their friends. we've also taken in a few stray humans over the years, and even kept a couple of the very special ones who are now just part of our big misfit family.

"if you are a dreamer, a wisher, a liar, a hope-er, a pray-er, a magic bean buyer . . . if you’re a pretender, come sit by my fire, for we have some flax golden tales to spin. come in! come in!" -shel silverstein

i'm always down for conversations about the ultimate question of life, the universe, and everything. i can handle just enough small talk to get to the good part of getting to know each other.

Who I'd like to meet:

maybe you. maybe not? but we won't know unless we try. msg me and let's find out!

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Helen Wolff

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Thanks for add! Lovin all your taste there! Can't point it one by one because all of them is my interests too! ️🖤🖤

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JUST a wish that you receive your 💓's desire📜🎄

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Wacky Alex

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Happy Halloween!

If you like Halloween Music, tune in to my channel. Muhhahahaha!

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Ciao and thanks a lot for adding me! I noticed we have much in common, especially when you say that you have loads of interests and hobbies... Here's the same! Oh, and if you like listening to random music, give a chance also to romanian folk metal, as long as you already explored romanian pop music :D I'm pretty sure you will like it! If you need some suggestions I can send you a couple of links :D

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JUST some mid-morn noms!🥝🥯☕

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Thanks for the add!

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Hello Roxanne, thanks for accepting my req. Wish you a great hump day! A.

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Steve's profile picture

Thanks for the add! Reading your profile I think we have several things in common.

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Wacky Alex

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Try my channel? >

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Ras Bolding

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Hey in here. ;)

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Hey in here. ;)

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Always🌼April's profile picture

JUST a little midday knosh for you!🍴🥗🧃

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Hello Roxanne, love your quote on heroes

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Always🌼April's profile picture

THANKS for adding me.You are totally tubular! 🎧

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Goths in Florida get extra bonus points! :)

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Curtzy K

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Heyyy!! Thx for the add, you seem so cool! feel free to message me anytime!

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Hiya. :) You too!

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Hii Roxanne!✋🏼

Thank you for the add, and welcome to Spacehey, the coolest place on the Internet since the old Myspace. I'm relatively new here too, and this platform is pretty fun

~Frankkie R.

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Yeah! Thanks. :) Clearly this is what we all didn't know we needed in our lives. XD

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Hi! Please check out our small scene & emo clothing brand, we're aiming to bring scene back in time for the rawring 20s =] Our instagram: @invaderscene Our store:

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I will. Appreciate the info!

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Hi, how are you? hope it's been a good week so far!
thanks for connecting :-)

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Hi, Maadonna! ::waves:: I'm good and it has. How about you?

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Yes, it's been a great week so far! in Spain at the moment and relieved the weather is more bearable now. a good day has been had at the market and beach! :)

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Lord Byron Silverhand

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Hey there, thanks for the add!

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You too! :D

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Don't be a stranger :D

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