Hiya! My name is Lindsey but my friends call me Sunshine.
I have 27 years of experience of converting oxygen into carbon dioxide.
I'm polyamrous, pansexual and demisexual.
I am married to the love of my life and my best friend in the world for 5 years this year. We have been together for 9 years and were high school sweethearts.
I am also in a LDR with an old friend of mine who lives in another state. I love them very much.
I believe that my purpose in this world is to share and experience love and connection with other beings. Love comes in many forms, and there are no two loves that are the same. To love is to experience the most genuinely human thing possible, and I believe that there is no such thing as one love being more important than any other. I have a huge heart and so much love to offer to others, and the idea of having to pick and choose who I "could" give that love to was deeply upsetting to me. My life has become so much more fulfilled since discovering and becoming part of the Ethical Nonmonogamy community. Feel free to ask questions. I'd love to discuss.
I love music festivals (especially Electric Forest and Lost Lands), gaming, dubstep music, reading, writing and painting.
I enjoy anime, cartoons and animation. I enjoy fantasy, sci-fi and supernatural stories in any form, be it tv, movie, books, or games. I'm a sucker for magic and creatures of the night. And yes... I did read and obsess over the Twilight series at one point in my life.
I'm a self-taught makeup enthusiast. Glittery eyes and black lipstick are a power combo.
I am an animal lover and an exotic pet owner. If you ask I'll tell you about my spiders. I'm serious. I love talking about them to anyone who will listen. They're fucking cute as fuck. I will also show you pictures of my cats and my dog. They bring so much joy into my life.
My favorite foods are sushi, coffee ice cream and cheesecake.
My favorite colors are black, white, teal and purple.
I'm living with borderline personality disorder, post traumatic stress disorder, panic disorder, anxiety disorder, and bipolar disorder. The past couple of years have been a time of growth, reflection and healing for me. This year has really put things to the test. But I have come a long way from an attempt on my life 3 years ago and I am very proud of myself for that.
I love that this website exists because my angsty teen self never got over the loss of MySpace. I'm excited to meet new people and make new friends!